Ida Hammer at her place in central Illinois. I don’ t want to become a trimmer (certainly not starting out at 60+!), but I do want to know everything I can about my horses’ feet and the care they need. So a friend and I made the 4-hour trip.
The clinic was amazing, and not just because of the
information. It was such an experience, on so many levels!
I had been afraid that it would smell bad and I’d be uncomfortable.
Well, it didn’t exactly smell great, but there was no smell of death—the legs
were fresh-frozen and then thawed, carefully wrapped with plastic and duct tape
to expose only the fetlock and hoof. Those were some gnarly, smelly feet, I’ll
grant you. Hooves of all shapes and sizes, in pretty bad condition.
The sheer amount of information that was shared was
astonishing and overwhelming at times. Ida’s knowledge is deep and broad, and
her enthusiasm and love for the horse is huge. The most important thing I
learned was how much I still have to learn—a lifetime isn’t enough!
As the day went on and the trim proceeded, I found myself
talking to him, patting him, reassuring him, like I would have done to a living
horse. I was careful to put the leg down gently, and to protect it from people
walking past. Doing a good job with the trim was important to me so he could
walk properly and freely—even though this leg, obviously, would never again
feel the ground in a joyful gallop. No matter.
Call me crazy, but that experience was as intimate as
anything I’ve had with my own living, breathing horses. By the time I had that
hoof trimmed up and looking great, I felt like he was “my” horse—felt so much
affection for him and happiness in his presence! The thought of him running across
those heavenly pastures with beautiful, sound feet was a joy.
When it was over and Ida asked who was going to take their
leg home, I wanted to raise my hand. But we were several hours from home
without a way to keep it chilled overnight and on the trip back.
What, you ask, would I have done with an amputated horse
leg? Buried it in our little pet graveyard out in back of the house, with Shadow
and Oshie and Wendy the Dog—those other four-legged family members who’ve gone
But instead, I’ll write, and honor his memory and his
sacrifice this way.
I wasn’t the only one to sense the presence of the horses
yesterday. My friend, auditing, says she could feel the entire “herd” there
with us, happily grazing and watching us as we learned from their feet and legs,
just hanging out with us. Horses, in life and death, are amazing creatures.
Last night, lying in bed at the hotel, I missed my new-found
friend and grieved his passing as if I had known him a long time. Those tears
felt right and just. This morning, the intensity of the sadness has moved on
and I’ve gone “back to grazing.”His memory, and my gratitude, remain.